The Hidden Cost of Being Reliable

For two years, I felt myself slowly shutting down, caring less, pulling away more, as exhaustion settled deep into my being.
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My husband thought to fix things with a more efficient to-do list. He made one on Trello. But that wasn’t the problem.

I wasn’t overwhelmed by tasks.
I was hemorrhaging energy.

I also created a visual list on Trello, but mine was of every open tab in my brain. It showed every category of planning, every ongoing responsibility, every future consideration, and every task I manage.

Seeing it all laid out was devastating ….